Thank you, Paola and Graham, for this interesting and inspiring podcast. There were so many takeaway nuggets of wisdom and useful advice. God often brings me healing when I, in my human weakness, have given up. Your words and guided visualization cleared and healed me of years of guilt from a work situation where I made a very difficult and consequential decision to do the right thing but have lived with the “ bad guy” guilt ever since. Tonight I heard my angels cheering for me. Going forward I will continue to tap into that energy and power. Thank you from my heart. Continued blessings on your journey in divine timing.
Thank you both for such a fantastic live stream . You’re truly great at what you do!
I really resonated with what you shared. I also had to make a big decision years ago and walk away from a high-paying job due to the work conditions. It wasn't easy at the time, but now, nine years later, I can say it was the best decision I ever made. I've never looked back. Thank you Paola and Graham for this meaningful live! God bless you both!🙏
Thank you both for this amazing podcast. Being the bad guy is hurtful until you realize dysfunctional abusive people will never understand. After a while, being the bad guy is a badge of honor for yourself. No one should sell their soul to keep the peace. Loved the meditation.
I am so happy that you two found each other and, on your journey, together. God bless you both.
Thank you both for this very inspiring live stream. The message you shared has given me a deep reflection on the importance of choosing ourselves, honoring our lives, and living with love and awareness. Thank you for motivating us to heal from within. ❤
I really appreciated this conversation and how you both drove home the point of how important boundaries are to create a safe and loving space for yourself, but for others to be in your life too. Paola, thank you for making the point to share that you can’t give to others if you don’t give to yourself first. This is something that has been so important to my learning journey this year. I was always an over functioning people pleaser and I would give and give and give to others until I was depleted and then still try to give more. I was happy to make others feel good and safe, even at my own peril and this happened in every aspect of my life.
I’ve learned that it is so much more fulfilling and meaningful to take care of self first and then give back to the world in more meaningful and authentic ways. It brings an abundance of joy and happiness and opens the doors for so many new opportunities when we take care of ourselves too. Your joy when speaking of our angels cheering us on was infectious! Thank you Paola and Graham, all the best to you both 🙏🏻:)
Graham and Paola, thank you both so very much for such an inspiring and thought provoking, live chat. There have been a couple of times in my long life where I have had to make such decisions. One involved, a job that I really loved and things started to go south, and I just knew that I had to remove myself. We just can't allow other people to dictate our life. This live really was so interesting and I love the work that the two of you are doing together. May it all continue. A match made in heaven!!!!!! BLESSINGS ❤️🙏🏻👏
An amazing podcast, thanks Paola and Graham, you make a great team! The meditation was very freeing, loved the feeling of my angels surrounding me. Thanks for the inner child meditation, will definitely use it. Blessings to both of you…am so happy that God’s plan brought you two together!
Graham, I am so glad you are happy and satisfied with your decisions you have made for yourself! For me I am so happy you were on Heartland. I was going through a tough time and this show helped me. This show is how I met you as an actor (not sure what word to use) ! Fell in love with your character also Amber’s! Still can’t watch Season 14 episode 1!! Lol 😂
I am so glad I followed you and joined Time as come podcast! I enjoy all the podcasts and events!! Love getting to know you!! Thank you!
Such a lovely way to spend my time on a Saturday night! I'm thankful for the ability to turn on my computer and be in the company of two of the most inspiring people around. I have set boundaries in my life now and one of them is how and with whom I spend my time. So thank you both for teleporting into my home last night. The discussion was so needed for many of us in this community who are people pleasers...who feel like bad guys initially at setting boundaries. But after those are set...the feeling of freedom and self-worth is amazing! It was good to hear how you each overcame these obstacles in your lives and thrive today. May God bless you both as you continue this important work together. You are changing lives for the better each day!❤️🙏
Thank you -you are truely right I’ve been there I found I wasn’t happy anymore and I started working on me and realized that my life was worth more than I realized I finally found love in me, self worth, and the happiness I never dreamed I’d ever have with Gods guidance I now believe in me and the beauty of life I found gratitude and forgiveness I’ve learned to “Be You” your worth it ….
Thank you for the replay with subtitles-it really helps me with the translation. The topic was truly fascinating and very interesting for me. I absolutely loved it! Perhaps in the future, you could also talk about the following subject: "WHEN LOVE HURTS-WITHIN FAMILIES AND PARTNERSHIPS. HEALING PATHS OUT of TOXIC REALATIONSHIPS." I'd really love to hear your thoughts and insight on this.
Although I missed this live, I appreciate the replay.
I have mentioned before, traumas I still struggle with. I still yoyo from being the people pleaser, to honouring my true self. It's a battle I have tried to conquer for decades, especially as one deals with family.
There has been one episode in my life that I was confronted with, that gave me closure. It was in regards to being bullied at my last job, as I struggled with mental issues, resulting in part to a full mental breakdown.
I was at a shopping centre when I heard my name called. I turned to see one of the bullies from my old job. I was shocked when apologised profusely, saying that when she struggled with mental issues, she too had been bullied. I'm sad that she had to go through the same treatment, as I had, in order to come to the realisation of what she & others, had put me through, but sincerely appreciated her apologise & the recognition. I left feeling lighter & could honour myself.
How I wish it is that easy with other traumas I have suffered & still battle with today (as expressed earlier).
The meditation was great & I actually cried when I felt myself being hugged & loved by one of my angels, plus feeling the love radiate from the others.
I have to continue to go to my inner child as I know this will help me.
I appreciate & thank you Paola that you have a meditation that I hope can help me work on this.
Hello Paola and Graham, enjoyed watching this. Really enjoyed the meditation piece on this. Thanks for sharing this with everyone! You both did a fantastic job on this podcast.
I admit I went into this one very hesitant, but this was a great and inspiring conversation. Thank you both for being willing to share your own personal journeys and how you have worked to find the path back to you. As the oldest of two who grew up in constant turmoil and more trauma that we have space to describe, I am the poster child for "people pleaser". I allowed myself to be treated badly personally and professionally for years. Then the day came that my body decided it was time to stop, after a hospital stay and a major anxiety attack, I had to take hold of my own hand and walk myself forward from that place. Past trauma has taken a toll on my health and that journey continues as I find my way. But, Graham your story about your family really resonated with me because I had to walk away from my family and it has been the hardest thing I have ever faced. I had to allow myself to be selfish and protect my own children from the same fate. I had to start over in a place 12 hours from the closest family member to begin to heal. Since the time I have been away from that, my life has changed in ways I never imagined. As with everything there is still work to be done, however there are times it feels like the scene in a movie when the hero walks through the fire and leaves the destruction behind. Walking forward day by day, being who God intended.
Thank you, Paola and Graham, for this interesting and inspiring podcast. There were so many takeaway nuggets of wisdom and useful advice. God often brings me healing when I, in my human weakness, have given up. Your words and guided visualization cleared and healed me of years of guilt from a work situation where I made a very difficult and consequential decision to do the right thing but have lived with the “ bad guy” guilt ever since. Tonight I heard my angels cheering for me. Going forward I will continue to tap into that energy and power. Thank you from my heart. Continued blessings on your journey in divine timing.
Thank you both for such a fantastic live stream . You’re truly great at what you do!
I really resonated with what you shared. I also had to make a big decision years ago and walk away from a high-paying job due to the work conditions. It wasn't easy at the time, but now, nine years later, I can say it was the best decision I ever made. I've never looked back. Thank you Paola and Graham for this meaningful live! God bless you both!🙏
Thank you both for this amazing podcast. Being the bad guy is hurtful until you realize dysfunctional abusive people will never understand. After a while, being the bad guy is a badge of honor for yourself. No one should sell their soul to keep the peace. Loved the meditation.
I am so happy that you two found each other and, on your journey, together. God bless you both.
Thank you both for this very inspiring live stream. The message you shared has given me a deep reflection on the importance of choosing ourselves, honoring our lives, and living with love and awareness. Thank you for motivating us to heal from within. ❤
I really appreciated this conversation and how you both drove home the point of how important boundaries are to create a safe and loving space for yourself, but for others to be in your life too. Paola, thank you for making the point to share that you can’t give to others if you don’t give to yourself first. This is something that has been so important to my learning journey this year. I was always an over functioning people pleaser and I would give and give and give to others until I was depleted and then still try to give more. I was happy to make others feel good and safe, even at my own peril and this happened in every aspect of my life.
I’ve learned that it is so much more fulfilling and meaningful to take care of self first and then give back to the world in more meaningful and authentic ways. It brings an abundance of joy and happiness and opens the doors for so many new opportunities when we take care of ourselves too. Your joy when speaking of our angels cheering us on was infectious! Thank you Paola and Graham, all the best to you both 🙏🏻:)
Laurie, Paola seria uma ótima convidada ao seu podcast! Seria incrível! 🤩 🥰
Foi muito bom estar com vocês na live, Paola e Graham! Muito obrigada por essa conversa tão inspiradora e libertadora! Bençãos infinitas! 🙏🏻❤️
Graham and Paola, thank you both so very much for such an inspiring and thought provoking, live chat. There have been a couple of times in my long life where I have had to make such decisions. One involved, a job that I really loved and things started to go south, and I just knew that I had to remove myself. We just can't allow other people to dictate our life. This live really was so interesting and I love the work that the two of you are doing together. May it all continue. A match made in heaven!!!!!! BLESSINGS ❤️🙏🏻👏
This session was so inspiring and insightful. You guys are great together. Thanks 🙏🏽
An amazing podcast, thanks Paola and Graham, you make a great team! The meditation was very freeing, loved the feeling of my angels surrounding me. Thanks for the inner child meditation, will definitely use it. Blessings to both of you…am so happy that God’s plan brought you two together!
Graham, I am so glad you are happy and satisfied with your decisions you have made for yourself! For me I am so happy you were on Heartland. I was going through a tough time and this show helped me. This show is how I met you as an actor (not sure what word to use) ! Fell in love with your character also Amber’s! Still can’t watch Season 14 episode 1!! Lol 😂
I am so glad I followed you and joined Time as come podcast! I enjoy all the podcasts and events!! Love getting to know you!! Thank you!
Such a lovely way to spend my time on a Saturday night! I'm thankful for the ability to turn on my computer and be in the company of two of the most inspiring people around. I have set boundaries in my life now and one of them is how and with whom I spend my time. So thank you both for teleporting into my home last night. The discussion was so needed for many of us in this community who are people pleasers...who feel like bad guys initially at setting boundaries. But after those are set...the feeling of freedom and self-worth is amazing! It was good to hear how you each overcame these obstacles in your lives and thrive today. May God bless you both as you continue this important work together. You are changing lives for the better each day!❤️🙏
Thank you -you are truely right I’ve been there I found I wasn’t happy anymore and I started working on me and realized that my life was worth more than I realized I finally found love in me, self worth, and the happiness I never dreamed I’d ever have with Gods guidance I now believe in me and the beauty of life I found gratitude and forgiveness I’ve learned to “Be You” your worth it ….
Thanks
Thank you for the replay with subtitles-it really helps me with the translation. The topic was truly fascinating and very interesting for me. I absolutely loved it! Perhaps in the future, you could also talk about the following subject: "WHEN LOVE HURTS-WITHIN FAMILIES AND PARTNERSHIPS. HEALING PATHS OUT of TOXIC REALATIONSHIPS." I'd really love to hear your thoughts and insight on this.
Although I missed this live, I appreciate the replay.
I have mentioned before, traumas I still struggle with. I still yoyo from being the people pleaser, to honouring my true self. It's a battle I have tried to conquer for decades, especially as one deals with family.
There has been one episode in my life that I was confronted with, that gave me closure. It was in regards to being bullied at my last job, as I struggled with mental issues, resulting in part to a full mental breakdown.
I was at a shopping centre when I heard my name called. I turned to see one of the bullies from my old job. I was shocked when apologised profusely, saying that when she struggled with mental issues, she too had been bullied. I'm sad that she had to go through the same treatment, as I had, in order to come to the realisation of what she & others, had put me through, but sincerely appreciated her apologise & the recognition. I left feeling lighter & could honour myself.
How I wish it is that easy with other traumas I have suffered & still battle with today (as expressed earlier).
The meditation was great & I actually cried when I felt myself being hugged & loved by one of my angels, plus feeling the love radiate from the others.
I have to continue to go to my inner child as I know this will help me.
I appreciate & thank you Paola that you have a meditation that I hope can help me work on this.
You are so inspiring! Thank you for all of your bravery!
Hello Paola and Graham, enjoyed watching this. Really enjoyed the meditation piece on this. Thanks for sharing this with everyone! You both did a fantastic job on this podcast.
I admit I went into this one very hesitant, but this was a great and inspiring conversation. Thank you both for being willing to share your own personal journeys and how you have worked to find the path back to you. As the oldest of two who grew up in constant turmoil and more trauma that we have space to describe, I am the poster child for "people pleaser". I allowed myself to be treated badly personally and professionally for years. Then the day came that my body decided it was time to stop, after a hospital stay and a major anxiety attack, I had to take hold of my own hand and walk myself forward from that place. Past trauma has taken a toll on my health and that journey continues as I find my way. But, Graham your story about your family really resonated with me because I had to walk away from my family and it has been the hardest thing I have ever faced. I had to allow myself to be selfish and protect my own children from the same fate. I had to start over in a place 12 hours from the closest family member to begin to heal. Since the time I have been away from that, my life has changed in ways I never imagined. As with everything there is still work to be done, however there are times it feels like the scene in a movie when the hero walks through the fire and leaves the destruction behind. Walking forward day by day, being who God intended.